{"id":493,"date":"2009-11-20T11:26:16","date_gmt":"2009-11-20T11:26:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/?p=493"},"modified":"2009-11-20T10:35:38","modified_gmt":"2009-11-20T10:35:38","slug":"to-unfriend-or-defriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/2009\/11\/20\/to-unfriend-or-defriend\/","title":{"rendered":"To unfriend or defriend?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I do love announcements of new words, especially when they cause a debate.<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/New_Oxford_American_Dictionary\">New Oxford American Dictionary<\/a> has pronounced <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.oup.com\/2009\/11\/unfriend\/ \">\u2018unfriend\u2019<\/a> its 2009 Word of the Year. All well and good&#8230; except I, along with many others, thought the term was <a href=\"http:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=defriend\">\u2018defriend\u2019<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The official definition: <em>unfriend \u2013 verb \u2013 To remove someone as a \u2018friend\u2019 on a social networking site such as Facebook.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Whilst I agree with the definition, I prefer \u2018defriend\u2019 \u2013 it rolls off the tongue better, don\u2019t you think? And it sounds nicer \u2013 unfriend is short for unfriendly after all.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m <a href=\"http:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/Technology\/AheadoftheCurve\/unfriend-defriend-facebook-fans-debate\/story?id=9106240 \">not alone<\/a> in preferring \u2018defriend\u2019 \u2013 <a href=\"http:\/\/nymag.com\/daily\/intel\/2009\/11\/facebook_doesnt_care_whether_y.html \">New York Magazine<\/a> agrees with me, and even went so far as to ask Facebook which term they prefer (they don\u2019t mind).<\/p>\n<p>Do you prefer to <strong>unfriend<\/strong> or <strong>defriend<\/strong>?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I do love announcements of new words, especially when they cause a debate. The New Oxford American Dictionary has pronounced \u2018unfriend\u2019 its 2009 Word of the Year. All well and good&#8230; except I, along with many others, thought the term was \u2018defriend\u2019. The official definition: unfriend \u2013 verb \u2013 To remove someone as a \u2018friend\u2019 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,35,44],"tags":[402,400,398,403,399,401,44],"class_list":["post-493","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-english","category-events","category-words","tag-definition","tag-defriend","tag-new-oxford-american-dictionary","tag-social-networking","tag-unfriend","tag-word-of-the-year","tag-words"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=493"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":496,"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493\/revisions\/496"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=493"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=493"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.language-museum.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=493"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}